I have been dreaming a long time ago , to find a way that can achieve what I really have inside my soul ... It started 6 years ago , when I had a small wish to be effective in my society , I even dreamed to be someone who can add a value to others life .
And as always , life takes you to directions , wrong and right , then wrong again and then right :) ups and downs , downs , downs and then up again .. as if you are entering a battle a life , either you do that to reach to a certain thing , or to reach to other . Sometimes even in both cases , you don`t feel like you really want this to happen , and that you are not 100% convinced from the steps you are taking , and indeed for you the coming up is " MYSTERIOUS" .
That`s exactly what I am having lately , I am doing steps that I wish can lead me to the biggest dream of my life and I don`t really know if these steps I will regret or not.
I wasted 6 years , dreaming and wishing and sometimes looking forward to , BUT taking a serious action , not quiet sure . Whatever , the outcome will be I should be strong enough to face it with a smile , even if it`s a COMPLETE FAILURE .
From now on , I decided to face failure , and not to be scared . I have to embarace the idea of failure in a way or another . I know that people who might read this ( I am not sure if what I type is being read or not, but let`s assume that it is) will laugh and say what a crazy airheaded girl . OK , I said I have to embarase Failure , and since failing in making those reader enjoy or agree with me , then IT`S FINE! NOT THE END OF WORLD.
I was always scared of LOSS, with no reason why am I really want the GAIN . Why does Human`s nature always looking for GAIN? and why do we feel down when we loss? why do we fear so?
I have lost many , lost friends , relationships , money and may be some dreams , and everytime I loss , I cry , I fight , be very angrey and get depressed ...
WE are human beings , and not GODS , but the way we have been adopted the idea of loss is totally FREAKY. I was always shocked when I hear from the news that some people committed suicide cause they broke up , lost their money or even lost their job. A question always comes up to my mind " Does life really worth it?" , " Is failure an enemy?" ... I started to figure Failure as a Human being , like me and you , with a sword or a gun , searching for a way to start the killing attack.
Thinking about that issue last night , I came up with a very smart idea , which I really hope to follow .... Why don`t we have FAILURE as a FRIEND? I know this might be a kinky thought , but please let me explain more.
The feel of failure , always stops anybody from moving on , even it can stop you thinking about a dream , due to the lack of trust and feeling of the insecure from the surrounding. If we adopted Failure and looked at it in a positive way , we will find out that Failure is nothing! it is a little sort of light that make you recognize a mislead that stops your procedure in life . It`s like a Helping tool, that gives a hand toward success. Think that way, and remember the scientific experiments and discoveries that took years of research and experiments full of ERRORS!
If there was no ERROR we wouldn`t have reached to NEAT CONCLUSION .
So please, have this tip and apply it in your lives.
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